Tired of Targeted Ads?

Cue cute drooling babies, gurgling along vaguely to the tune of ‘Twinkle Twinkle Little Star’, and a direct question to the viewer, ‘Are you trying for a baby?’ An advert I’m getting quite familiar with, and quite sick of, to be frank, for digital ovulation tests. As it happens, I’m not trying for a baby. I simply want to watch a video about cats. This ad is relentlessly broadcast to me whenever I watch anything online.

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And it’s not like it’s this ad sometimes, and others at other times. I can’t remember the last time I was shown a different ad as the inevitable prelude to an online video. Except for a few months ago when I was faced with endless cycles of a similarly vomit-inducing digital pregnancy test ad from the same company. I don’t know what the Internet knows about me, but it probably knows I’m a woman in my early thirties and I can only assume it’s these factors that result in this unwelcome bombardment of babbling infants.

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But it doesn’t stop there. Since this particular advert got my back up, I’ve taken more notice of the targeted advertising that I receive more generally. Over the past month, the adverts I’ve seen include: chocolate, cake décor, laundry detergent, cleaning products, vacuum cleaners, wedding photography, children’s toys, baby formula, and – best of all – ‘sleep tips for new parents’ from a high street life insurance company. How kind of them.

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If I look at this list and think about the ‘profile’ these organisations have built up of me, it’s a worryingly backwards one. While the chocolate is fair enough (although I am dubious as to whether they promote to males of the same age) it appears to me that my profile is that of a mother (or aspiring mother) who should be married, or at least thinking about getting married, who bakes cakes, cleans the bathroom, does laundry and enjoys vacuuming.

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Is it just me, or does this sound like we’ve gone back 50 years? Promoting these products specifically to women in their thirties appears to be reinforcing outdated social stereotypes that our generation assumed had been committed period dramas and ironic Ladybird books. Aside from the simmering rage this realisation stirred up, it also – in the back of my mind – got me wondering, should I be thinking about having a baby? I don’t think I want one right now, but why not? I probably should want one. Everyone else I know does. And now my news feed is pretty much telling me it’s imperative that I do!

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While it’s obvious I’ll never be one to get satisfaction from baking or laundry, the baby thing did for a brief moment at least, get me questioning my decisions. Has personalised advertising replaced nagging grannies and broody friends in asking the cringeworthy and dreaded question, ‘so, are you next dear?’ For me (and it seems, lots of other women – check out the comments on this video) this whole thing is annoying and slightly perturbing, but there’s no harm done, I guess. Unless I end up pregnant precisely because those bundles of joy were so damn persuasive.

But what if it were to cause harm? What if I was struggling to conceive, or had lost a baby? Beyond the obvious question of exactly how companies compile their secretive algorithms and profile us, the more worrying question is, while they aim to present us with products that mirror our interests and lifestyle, what if instead, they are moulding our lifestyles, our motivations and our expectations for ourselves?

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There’s been much talk lately in light of the recent Brexit and Trump victories, about how ‘filter bubbles’ (a term coined by Eli Pariser in 2011) can create an imbalanced world view through algorithmic online filtering. I see a distinct parallel between this ‘filter bubble’ affecting the stories we see and the ‘advertising bubble’, which affects which adverts we’re exposed to.

The ramifications of adverts being so targeted as to blinker out alternative views of ourselves are far-reaching and disconcerting. Not fitting the mould that’s being incessantly rammed in our faces will no doubt contribute to feelings of inadequacy, and in some cases, emotional and psychological trauma. It’s only right that tech companies start thinking about the ethical impact, not only of personalised news feeds, but of personalised advertising. If the ‘filter bubble’ is influencing the way we think about the world, so too the ‘advertising bubble’ is influencing the way we think about ourselves. It’s time we take off the social blinkers before we start baking, hoovering and inadvertently trying out those sleep tips for new parents!

Rethinking Dating

Want to know what separates a date that feels like a job interview and a date that feels fun and enjoyable? It’s all in the approach. There are two ways to approach dating – from a place of fear or from a place of love. We’re Project Love, and we’re all about the latter, here’s how you can do it, in five simple ways…

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Be open to being surprised at who you could be attracted to

 
Time after time, when we speak to happy couples, we hear that the women didn’t end up with the kind of guy that they thought they’d end up with. So don’t assume to know what your type is. Rather than focusing on physical attributes, what they do for a living etc, focus on how you want to feel on the date and anchor into that instead. Approach your date with an open heart and mind to give you both the space to show up fully.

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Give up the game!

 
‘Play it cool, ‘don’t reply to messages on weekends’, ‘play hard to get’ – there are so many ‘rules’ to play this game of dating. But the only game that you should be playing is the game of honesty and authenticity. That’s all people ever want from us. When you’re being real, you open up a space for your date to be real too.

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Get inspired

 
If you’re feeling disillusioned about dating then time for a shot of inspiration to get you feeling optimistic again. Think of one or two couples that you know, and whose relationship really inspires you. Write about what you admire about their relationship and as a bonus, spend some time with them too. They are showing you what’s possible for you.

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Explore and experiment with different ways of meeting people

 
Online dating is a great way to meet people but it doesn’t have to be the only way. Ask your friends to be your matchmaker and set you up on a coffee date with someone. And get involved in activities that you enjoy that will also have you meeting new people. You could decide to try something new like a photography course, a printmaking workshop or learning a new language.

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As well as dating other people, don’t forget to date yourself!

 
This is one of our favourite things that we get clients to do – to take themselves out on a date. We’ve had clients do anything from take themselves out to brunch at their fave cafe with a good book to getting dressed up and taking themselves on a solo date to the theatre. Take yourself out and woo yourself – give yourself the same love and respect that you want from someone else.

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Project Love helps women to create a relationship and life that they love, through online courses, 121 coaching programmes, events, workshops and a regular podcast. Their amazing ‘Get Ready For Love’ 30 day online course promises to transform your love life from the inside out. Feeling stuck in love? We’ve got three Get Ready For Love courses to win, plus membership of Project Love’s private Facebook group. To win, simply follow both Running in Heels and Project Love on Instagram, or Facebook (Running in Heels and Project Love on FB). You get an extra entry if you comment/share anywhere on social media, hashtagged with either #runninginheels or #projectlove. Check out Project Love’s testimonials here.You’ve got one week to enter, go go go!

The Edit: Faux Fur

Fashion trends come and go, but we couldn’t be more delighted that this year, faux fur seems to have really come into its own. Not too long ago, it looked like we were heralding the return of real fur, but thankfully with faux fur coats, gilets and scarves looking ever more stylish for Autumn/Winter 2016, there’s even less excuse for mink, fox and all the other non-PETA-approved fabrics. From leopard to stripes and high street to high end, staying warm and stylish has never been easier. Here’s our edit of the best faux fur coats to buy right now…

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Mango Leopard faux-fur coat          Mango Faux Fur Jacket

Mango Leopard Faux-Fur Coat

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Missguided Blue Oversized Collar Faux Fur Coat          Missguided Collarless Short Faux Fur Coat

Missguided Navy Bubble Faux Fur Coat

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Mango Faux Fur Coat        Mango Faux Fur Coat

Mango Faux Fur Jacket

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Missguided Pink Bubble Faux Fur Bomber Jacket          Missguided Pink Pressed Faux Fur Coat

Missguided Pink Longline Faux Fur Bomber Jacket

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X Revolve Bonita Faux Fur Jacket          Unreal Fur Dream Faux Fur Jacket

Milly Faux Fur Jacket

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Shrimps Fifi Leopard Print Faux Fur Coat          Shrimps Jean Striped Faux Fur Coat

Shrimps Claude Leopard Print Faux Fur Coat

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Reiss Alexia Faux Fur Coat           Reiss Meyer Faux Fur Gilet

Reiss Alexia Faux Fur Coat

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Whistles Faux Fur Cocoon Coat          Whistles Jacquard Faux Fur Coat

Whistles Duvall Faux Fur Jacket

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Karl Lagerfeld Faux Fur Coat         Elizabeth & James Balin leopard-print faux fur coat

Alice + Olivia Kinsley oversized striped faux fur coat

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Lazy Oaf X Disney 101 Dalmatians Faux Fur Coat          ASOS Faux Fur Cropped Jacket

ASOS Faux Fur Coat in Leopard Print with Contrast Collar

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Zara Short Faux Fur Jacket          Zara Faux Fur Bomber Jacket

Zara Animal Print Faux Fur Coat

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J.Crew Madison Faux Fur Coat          Michael by Michael Kors Leopard-print faux fur wrap coat

J.Crew Madison Geo Striped Faux Fur Coat

SJP’s Must-Have Shoes

When you think of Sex and the City, New York streets, the girls’ epic dating antics and Carrie’s pondering voiceovers are probably what come to mind. And then there was that shoe collection. Yes, when we weren’t lusting over Smith Jarrod et al, it was Sarah Jessica Parker’s incredible footwear that lit up the screen. She might not have invested in property, or done any of those Serious, Important Things, but boy, did Carrie have an amazing collection of shoes. So the news that SJP has created a capsule range of shoes for Net-A-Porter is sweet, sweet music to our ears.

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SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Westminster Metallic Leather Sandals

Launched just in time for the festive season, the collection of party shoes includes heels and flats – all as opulent and eye-catching as you might have hoped! Think jewel-encrusted satin pumps, shimmering metallic leather sandals and bow-adorned heels plus elegant flats and pretty Mary Janes. These are classics, with a twist – SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker’s shoes are timeless pieces to wear this season and next too. Add these show-off shoes to any LBD and you’re good to go. And party dressing made easy is something we think Carrie would definitely approve of!

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SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Windsor Crystal-Embellished Satin Pumps

SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Carrie Metallic Leather Pumps

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SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Carrie Satin Point-Toe Flats

SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Tartt Crystal-Embellished Satin Pumps

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SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Lucille bow-embellished satin pumps

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SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Windsor Crystal-Embellished Satin Pumps

SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Fugue Glittered Leather Sandals

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SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker Carrie Satin Pumps

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For more information, and to shop the SJP by Sarah Jessica Parker collection, head to Net-A-Porter. Prices range from £245 to £400.

Festive Feasts Help the Homeless

Christmas? If you love the fizz-fuelled, gift-buying, sequin-clad occasion, it’s quite probably the most wonderful time of the year. But if you’re homeless or living in temporary accommodation, it’s likely to be one of the worst. Cold, dark, lonely; most of us can only imagine what it must be like to sleep rough on the streets, fairy lights twinkling cruelly over our heads and on the other side of shop windows.

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“We really want to challenge the stigma surrounding homelessness”, says Meg Doherty, Founder and CEO of Fat Macy’s: the supper club project that gives the homeless a helping hand. “The people we work with just need a chance” and by training homeless young Londoners to run supper club events so they can save money for a rental deposit, Fat Macy’s does just that. It allows people who have become homeless “to get on with rebuilding their lives, rather than getting stuck in a benefits trap”.

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But as well as being a great social enterprise, at Fat Macy’s you’ll also eat one of the best meals you’re likely to get this December. A velvety roasted garlic and potato soup, hearty turkey pie with smashed cranberry sauce and boozy quince trifle make up a menu you’d never guess was cooked up by newly trained twenty-somethings, recently down on their luck.

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Fat Macy’s are hosting twelve evenings throughout December at Clerkenwell’s Printworks Kitchen (a short walk away from Farringdon Tube and a hop and a skip from Exmouth Market). With long sharing tables the sociable atmosphere is electric and it’s a great way to meet new people (what supper clubs are famous for), as well as helping those in need.

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Buy your tickets for Fat Macy’s here for £30, including three courses and a welcome cocktail (bargain).  It’s honestly the best night out you’ll have this Christmas and leave you feeling all fuzzy inside. #WIN

How To Write A Bestseller

Writing a bestselling novel is definitely #lifegoals for many of us. However, the hard reality of putting pen to paper, finding time to write, wrestling with characterisation and plot – not to mention the pitfalls of eventually finding a publisher – have left plenty of great stories off the shelf. But don’t be daunted. The dream of headlining the Hay Festival or topping the Amazon books chart can happen – and Cecelia Ahern is a woman who should know. Best known for her debut novel, P.S I Love You, which was written when she was just 21, she’s turned out to be quite the prolific author. Thirteen books later including a YA novel and a rumoured erotic TV screenplay under her belt (yes, you read that right) she’s just released her latest novel, Lyrebird. Here, Ahern shares her secrets for how to turn that story you’re itching to tell into a literary smash.

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Discover your most effective way of writing

 
Find what works for you. Because I have children, I’m a very structured writer. I sit down from 9-5, four days a week and write a chapter in each sitting. I’ll walk into my office and light a Jo Malone candle, such as Blackberry & Bay or Grapefruit; it’s the moment I can go ‘aah’ and be creative. I write longhand first so I can see how ideas develop and then I type it up. I edit as I go along so I immediately have a second draft. I start writing in January, edit in the summer and it’s published in autumn. That’s my routine. You might think that it doesn’t sound very creative but it’s about setting out a time and sticking to it.

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Creative writing courses aren’t for everyone

 
If you’re a person who needs structure and motivation, then great. But I did creative writing classes at college and I found it was forced creativity. To be given a topic to write about was too restricting and was frustrated I couldn’t write the things I wanted to. I’m a lone ranger. I work best alone.

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Sharing your work is good – but only once you’ve finished

 
Even now sharing my work is daunting. My mother was the first person who read my work and I remember giving it to her and hiding behind my hands. Which I still do to be honest! What’s needed at this point is encouragement. For me, it’s not about pointing out spelling mistakes or repetitions. It’s all about motivation. Writing a novel is a long process. Sometimes I think, ‘can I finish this?’ So encouragement and praise is important to help you complete your story. Then you can be critical.

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Ideas first. Character second.

 
I always know the beginning and ending of my books. As with Lyrebird, I knew it was about a girl with an ability to mimic sounds. From there, my characters grew. Writing is very visual; basically, I write what I see. It’s like a movie: I watch and write. I’ll have conversations with the characters in my head. Then sometimes an idea will just strike from nowhere. The other day my brother-in-law made a comment and suddenly ‘bam!’ I could see my next book – the story, characters, everything!

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Write what you feel, not what you know

 
I have a love/hate relationship with the phrase ‘write what you know’. I think you should write how you feel. Sometimes what you know isn’t that interesting. I love my allotment, but as the basis of a story it might not work. But how you feel about your allotment could work as part of a story.

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Find an agent before pitching to publishers

 
I wouldn’t have had a clue how to go directly to a publisher, even now. My advice would be to pick up the Writers’ Handbook. I was recommended to my agent by a family friend, and was told to send in three chapters and a synopsis. After that I was asked for more chapters, so I was writing on demand. After ten chapters, she asked to meet me and two weeks after that I had secured a deal with Harper Collins. I was so encouraged that someone liked my first ten chapters it gave me faith to go on and finish the book.

Cecelia Ahern’s Lyrebird is out now, published by Harper Collins. For more information on Cecelia Ahern, head to her website, follow on Twitter or find her on Facebook.

Having It All

How peaceful life would be if we really could have it all. Everything you ever wanted landing straight into your lap through a click of the fingers. It would be amazing, wouldn’t it?

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Many people often think that way. So why do we constantly read stories of the rich, famous and successful, who have fallen into the depths of anxiety, stress and addiction? Typically, the main reason is because – in their scramble to ‘have it all’ – they succumb to the short term pleasures in life rather than focusing on the long term gains. So what can we do today, to reap a more rewarding and fulfilling life tomorrow?

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CLARITY

 
Uncertainty is the biggest stress that most of us face in life. We should remind ourselves that we are animals and therefore need the same feeling of safety and security that animals do. Stress is there for a reason. It is a red flag that warns us that all is not well, and that there are areas of our lives we need to pay attention to.

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SEPARATE YOUR ‘NEEDS’ FROM YOUR ‘WANTS’

 
Animals will feel stressed unless they are in a safe environment where they do not have to worry about predators. Such an environment would include a safe place to stay, food, water and other animals of the same species around them for protection – the necessities in life. In the same way, order for us humans to feel safe and secure, we need to first focus on obtaining the things that bring us safety and security; a home, financial security, a strong and healthy body, a long term partner and good friends.

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So, write down all the things you want out of life so you can see them clearly in front of you. Divide them into two lists, “needs” and “wants”. “Needs” are long term goals such as financial security, a home, a car, savings etc. Wants are short term pleasures such as material possessions, nights out and weekends away.

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PRIORITISE

 
Ultimately, it’s crucial to prioritise our “needs” before our “wants” if we wish to attain peace of mind. Many people tend to feed their short term “wants” before their long term “needs”, which leads to insecurity and stress. There is nothing wrong with having the latest mobile phone, seasonal fashions, or a spa weekend away, but make sure your long term plans are in place first. “Wants” are fine in moderation, but keep them under control.

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STAY IN CREDIT

 
Avoid getting into debt through buying unnecessary things. “Wants” will only ever provide you with short term pleasure and these tend to be your material possessions or emotional pleasures which, although are exciting in the moment, lose their appeal very quickly. If you are spending too much time and money on your “wants”, then in the long term, your “needs” will not be met, leaving you insecure and anxious about the future. Only spend what you have. Once you get into debt, you will find that rather than owning your possessions, your possessions start to own you.

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GRATITUDE

 
Finally, be grateful for what you have. There will always be others with more than you, so don’t compare yourself to them. Instead contemplate all the things that you do have, as you will start begin to appreciate how good your life already is.

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Toby Maguire is founder and CEO of Working in Balance, which runs retreats and workshops specialising in corporate wellness, and wellbeing in the workplace. From January 2017, Working In Balance is hosting a series of unique and rebalancing retreats in the spectacular setting of Six Senses Douro Valley, Portugal. Working in Balance aims to educate individuals and organisations on the negative effects of stress, how to reduce it and how to improve physical and psychological well-being. Guests at the retreats will receive a range of tips on how to work more productively and efficiently, and the retreat also includes an individual wellness assessment, two hours of daily themed workshops and seminars, Tai Chi, meditation and yoga classes, as well as fitness activities and a relaxing daily massage. For more information and to book, see the Working in Balance website.

Taking Stock Of Time

Imagine you could divide the time you’re not asleep into 100 blocks of ten minutes each. And then decide what to do with those 100 blocks. That’s exactly what you can do every single day. Time to sit down and take stock of time?

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Most people sleep about seven or eight hours a night. That leaves 16 or 17 hours awake each day. Or about 1,000 minutes. Let’s think about those 1,000 minutes as 100 10-minute blocks. That’s what you wake up with every day. Read more: Wait But Why.

Workwear 101

Let’s face it, office-appropriate dressing can be something of a minefield. What is “appropriate” varies enormously from workplace to workplace. Strutting past the water cooler in a silk pyjama suit and statement heels might earn you sartorial points of a Monday morning in a creative office, but leave the cleaners sweeping up the entire third floor’s dropped jaws in the corporate world. Part of the joy of working in a creative industry is the workwear freedom that comes with it. So, this time around, our advice is aimed at the white-collar world, where getting it right is key, and getting it wrong can be a bit of a disaster.

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First up, it really pays off to build your working wardrobe around some hardworking classic staples. Think of these foundations as an exercise in utter simplicity, Clare Underwood-level simplicity, because it is from here that all the good stuff can follow (prints, colour and personality), without undermining office acceptability. Having a handle on the staples lets you amp up the volume on days when you feel like it, and keep things sober and appropriate when the type of work day demands it.

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Time and time again, simple staples and accessories will finish your conservative looks neatly – and also appropriately anchor your more adventurous outfits. They offer up conservative, corporate touch points, and allow you to play with prints and textures. Arm yourself with fine block-colour merino or cashmere knits in charcoal or heather grey, navy, black and camel (every season, Cos line their rails with simple knits in a variety of necklines), and crisp white and light blue shirts. Choose a structured, subtle bag with clean lines in navy, berry, forest green, black or camel. If you’re feeling adventurous, a leather backpack with simple, clean lines can be a chic and practical option.

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Discover the game-changer that is owning a pair each of black, nude and navy courts. (This may sound a tad dull, but these shoes will be interchangeable with everything you own and bring your more adventurous outfits down to earth). For classic heels, the best of the bunch can be found at Gianvitto Rossi and Manolo Blahnik, with high streeters LK Bennett and Zara offering up some great options too.

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Make some space in your wardrobe for a selection of “no-brainer” dresses. When paired with heels (simple or fun) or chic super flats, the no-brainer dress can be reached for in the morning with no extra engagement of your pre-coffee brain, and relied upon 100% to make you look like you know exactly what you’re doing. Focus on the cut and shape first – if these are classic, nearly any colour or pattern will work.

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For the best examples of these hero-dresses, look no further than J.Crew and Boden. Here, classic shapes (crucial) are combined with fun prints and interesting textures. They are also fully lined and made from fabrics that hold their shape. Pop over a tailored (see below) long line or box-cut boucle jacket and you’re good to go.

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For a corporate wardrobe, there is just no getting away from the fact that tailoring is a must. It has transformative powers in both boardrooms and meeting rooms, particularly if your base outfit is more casual. It does so much of the hard work on the rest of your wardrobe’s behalf, pulling together your whole look.

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For an ode to the power of tailoring, look no further than Olivia Palermo. When asked about the secret of her flawless style, she repeatedly highlights the importance of tailoring as a cornerstone of her personal style successes. The best fit on the high street comes courtesy of Reiss (an OP favourite, natch). What’s more, their already brilliantly well-cut pieces can also be altered to suit your body shape.

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Massimo Dutti have the confidence to offer up colourful tailoring options, bringing much welcomed variety (and femininity) into the typically navy or black suiting arena. Their current collection also features a beautiful dark grey cinched-in wrap suit jacket that will add something fresh to your jacket collection.

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Now, nothing injects more joy into workwear than a dash of something a bit more unexpected. Prints can absolutely work in the office when paired with your classic courts, simple knit or a crisp, collared shirt. H&M and Zara have cornered the market lately in affordable, printed cigarette trousers. Courts in a fun print or a punchy shade can add an unexpected touch to your classic dresses or tailoring. Love a collarless cropped jacket? Why not try it in metallic bouclé instead? Out of the ordinary, printed or colourful pieces may only last you a couple of seasons, but with your classics close at hand, this shouldn’t be a cause for concern.

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Put simply, the best way to approach your working wardrobe is with one eye always on the classics. When you’ve mastered these, prints, trends, colours, shapes can be embraced and then moved on from when the time is right – allowing you to have fun with your workwear, show your personality, and keep your wardrobe ever-evolving, whilst always striking just the right tone.

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Cos Round Neck Wool Jumper          Cos Round Neck Wool Jumper

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Whistles Regent Soft Leather Tote          Jigsaw Blake Leather Backpack

Mansur Gavriel Sun Leather Crossbody Bag

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J.Crew A-Line Dress          J.Crew Bracelet Sleeve Dress

J.Crew Monday Dress          J.Crew Cap Sleeve Dress

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Zara Mid-Heel Shoes          Zara Contrast Mid-Heel Shoes

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Boden Aurelia Ottoman Dress          Boden Sixties Jacquard Dress

Boden Marisa Dress

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Cos Twisted Detail Jumper          Cos Long-Sleeve Cashmere Jumper

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Launer Judi Leather Tote          Saint Laurent Cabas Rive Gauche Leather Tote

3.1 Phillip Lim Ink Leather Pashli Tote

hm-cigarette-trousersH&M Spotted Cigarette Trousers          H&M Patterned Cigarette Trousers

H&M Cigarette Trousers

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LK Bennett Fauna Metallic Leather Courts          LK Bennett Fern Monochrome Printed Courts

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Massimo Dutti Navy Blue Suit Jacket          Massimo Dutti Boiled Wool Blazer

Massimo Dutti Blazer With Tie

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Manolo Blahnik Fawn Suede Pumps          Manolo Blahnik Black Suede Pumps

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Massimo Dutti Short Ecru Jacket          Zara Tweed Jacket

Zara Metallic Fabric Blazer

reiss-womens-tailoringReiss Murphy Jacket          Reiss Hanako Jacket

Seasonal Showering

We know it’s essential to do the whole daily top to toe moisturising thing, but EVEN if you’ve got your central heating on full blast, it’s pretty nippy (ahem) at this time of year. So what to do? Sure, you want smooth, soft supple skin, but slathering on moisturiser post-shower is something only people with dubious sanity or a serious insensitivity to chilly temperatures would do over the colder months. Brrrrr! The solution? We love a bit of multi-tasking, so it’s all about finding a supercharged body wash which does the hard work for you.

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Pick something rich and nourishing, packed with skin-loving ingredients, and take a little extra time to really work it into your skin. Scented shower oils work well as they’re amazing for deep hydration, while indulgent shower creams will soften and leave skin feeling velvety smooth. Save the money on heating and spend it in the shower instead. Now there’s maths that makes sense!

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Neom Real Luxury™ Bath & Shower Oil

Aromatherapy Associates Inner Strength Bath & Shower Oil

Diptyque Do Son Shower Oil

L’Occitane Almond Shower Oil

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Espa Lemon, Ylang Ylang & Tonka Bean Body Wash

Le Labo Neroli 36 Shower Gel

Aesop A Rose by Any Other Name Body Cleanser

Jo Malone Peony Blush Suede Shower Oil

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Elemis Sweet Orchid Shower Cream

Yves Saint Laurent Mon Paris Shower Oil

Rituals Sakura Shower Oil

Roger & Gallet Rose Gentle Shower Cream

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Laura Mercier Crème Body Wash Ambre Vanillé

Maison Francis Kurkdjian À La Rose Scented Shower Cream

Kiehl’s Fig Leaf and Sage Skin-Softening Body Cleanser

Aerin Tangier Vanille Body Wash

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Ameliorate Skin Smoothing Shower Cream

Clarins Eau Ressourçante Bath and Shower Milk

Nivea In-Shower Body Moisturiser

Derma Remedy Intense Dry Skin Therapy Body Wash