Invites are arriving and weekends are getting booked up. Oh yes, wedding season is on the horizon! After you’ve decided what to pick from the gift list and booked your hotel, the next big question is – of course – what to wear. Read on for our tips for how to get it right every time…

Plan Ahead

Yes, we’re all busy, but honestly slinging all the possible sartorial choices and various pairs of shoes into a suitcase with the intention of choosing on the day is never, ever a good idea. Panic isn’t generally consider conducive to choosing an outfit that you feel happy, confident and comfortable in. Even if you’re not thinking of buying something new to wear for a wedding, take ten minutes to lay your outfit out, look at different accessories and shoes – and try it on!

What’s The Vibe?

Countryside wedding or city shindig? Relaxed affair on the beach or white tie? Find out what you can about the wedding before the day arrives, that way you’ll know if it’s the moment to dress down and keep things low key, choose to impress with something ultra-chic and on-trend or stick to a simple day dress and heels. If it’s an all-day affair, you’ll also want to wear something to take you from afternoon drinks to dancing come sundown. Considering the weather and hot weddings under the midday sun or chilly evening receptions is also important – perhaps pack a hat to shade your face or cosy cashmere wrap?

Be You

That green lace jumpsuit is rather fabulous and yes, you’re sure to turn heads, but does it really feel like you? Wedding are all about dressing up, but now is not the time to debut a new style direction that you’re not 100% confident of. And if you don’t want to wear something that looks like it’s a typical wedding guest outfit, don’t! Another thing to not – you do NOT have to wear a dress. Elegant jumpsuits, chic culottes, a skirt suit combo or sophisticated tailored trousers all work well for weddings, so if you don’t want to wear a dress, that’s fine! The most important thing is being yourself and wearing something you feel confident and relaxed in – and that suits you and your sense of style

Styling Tips

Outfit sorted? Excellent news. Next up? Hair, makeup and accessories! A spectacular hat can be the star of the show if you’re wearing a simple frock. And the right clutch, earrings and necklace can make all of the difference to your outfit too. Makeup-wise, if you’re doing your own, make sure that it’s achievable and ideally choose long-lasting products so that you’re not worrying about touch-ups when you should be enjoying yourself. Makeup counters are always a good place to start if you’d like some advice on new products or trying something different – and who doesn’t love a free makeover? If you’re doing your own hair, again – don’t go for anything too complex or time-consuming – soft waves or a simple blow dry are timeless and elegant.

Choosing Shoes

Of course, we LOVE sexy shoes, but they become distinctly less sexy when they’re shoes you’re struggling to walk in. If you’re not used to wearing heels and don’t find them comfortable, don’t wear heels, it’s that simple! If you’re attending a wedding that lasts all day, it’s worth taking an extra pair of shoes for the evening reception. Whether you find wearing heels all day long challenging or don’t want to miss out on tearing up the dance floor with Uncle Magnus, take some matching flats along! And – just in case – don’t forget blister plasters…

Getting Spendy

Of course, you want to pick the perfect outfit, but bankrupting yourself splashing out on just the right clutch or overspending on a dress which is only going to be worn once? Forget it! Best case scenario – choose items that you can wear again, whether that’s for another wedding or special occasion, or even dressed down for work. And reviewing your wardrobe is always a good idea – you never know what gems you might find hiding at the back of your wardrobe that you’d totally forgotten about!

Not forgetting…

It’s fine to wear white – just make sure your dress doesn’t in any way resemble a wedding gown. AWKWARD. Black is also very acceptable these days, but do break things up with colourful accessories and a bright lip, for example. Leather and denim don’t really look right at a wedding honestly, so avoid – aside from perhaps a biker jacket over your frock for a little extra edge. Most importantly? When it comes to wedding outfits, don’t overthink things! This is a day celebrating friends or family – so enjoy every moment. In the end, no one will remember your shoes – they’ll be focusing on the bride’s radiant smile as she says “I do!”